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    被拒絕,也是一種肯定

    作者: 阮一峰

    日期: 2010年9月13日

    昨天,先是看到一個老外,說了一句很震撼的話。

    ”你個人的項目,應該有四分之一會失敗,否則就說明你的冒險精神不夠。“

    我心里一動,心想這些天,我是不是把個人的失敗看得太重了?

    失敗完全可以理解成積極進取的結果,只有生命力充沛的人,才可能會有一次又一次的失敗。一味地恐懼失敗,只會讓自己畏首畏尾,喪失進取心。

    沒料到,幾個小時之后,創業家 Chris Dixon 也談到了這個話題。

    他說:

    ”八年前,找工作時,我四處碰壁。投了幾百份簡歷,一無所獲。大公司不給我面試機會,風投公司說他們只要有經驗的人,而創業公司那時正在大批裁員。宏觀經濟糟透了,我自己的領域(互聯網消費)一落千丈,我的簡歷又缺乏亮點,于是就一次又一次地被拒絕。“

    但是,Chris Dixon 后來感到,這一段經歷對自己職業生涯的幫助最大。為什么?

    ”因為這些挫折讓我的臉皮變厚了。我開始意識到,雇主只是拒絕我的簡歷,而不是拒絕我這個人。既然不是對個人的否定,我又害怕失去什么呢?所以,我就更加大膽(或者說更加厚臉皮)地去找工作了。最后,終于有一家公司愿意雇傭我(感謝他們不看重我的簡歷),此后的一切都很順利,我走上了事業起飛的大道。“

    他得出了結論:

    ”遭受挫折,并不是壞事。因為,人生的最終結果是一個極大值函數(由所有嘗試中最成功的一次決定),而不是一個平均值函數。即使現在,我每天在生活中,還是會遭到拒絕。朋友想安慰我,但是我卻要告訴他:之所以會這樣,只是因為我在不停嘗試。如果你不是每天被人拒絕,那就說明你的人生目標不夠遠大。“

    讀到最后一句話,我的心豁然開朗。這個夏天揮之不去的一些煩惱,頓時平靜了。

    丘吉爾說過,”所謂成功,就是不停地經歷失敗,并且始終保持熱情。“一次又一次地被拒絕,是你的勇氣和進取心的最好證明。它們決定了你可以走多遠,把你和那些決心放棄的人拉開差距。

    所以,不要害怕被拒絕,這其實是對你的肯定和褒揚。

    最后生成于 2018-7-9 07:42:00

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